Jenn here again...
this morning we are headed back to the hospital in hopes/expectation that we will see Ashley taken off the ventilator today and taking her first breath. This is the first breath with her new lungs and the first breath of her new life. A new life that she has fought, pilaged and worked for! Her family, her parents, her brother, her friends and most of all you have fought along side her. What an amazing person to fulfill this amazing life!
Sunday, June 20, 2010
Saturday, June 19, 2010
New lungs
The surgeon came in. Ashleys new lungs are in and she did GREAT! We will see her through the glass soon. Love you cousin!
New lungs
Ashley is getting her new lungs today!!!!!! She got the call around 7:30 this morning and immediatley went to Tampa. They checked in and got prepped and ready and were in the OR before the surgeon had visualization. At 1:45ish he gave the lungs the green light and she began her surgery. I will update more when shec omes out. It is about an 11 hr surgery so hopefully by 12:30 am she is in recovery.
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Some Thoughts
So a lot has been going on...even though nothing has been going on. LOL Makes no sense right? Well last week we had a visit from some old friends, Sue and Jim, they were down here for our friend's wedding. It was so nice to have the whole Courtney Villages group together again. We went Thursday to the pool and had some BBQ like the good ole days. One thing was different though....I was on oxygen.
I don't know how or what people feel exactly when they see me with it for the first time. It was the first time Sue, Kristen,Zach, Jen, JP, Maddy, Jim...sheesh...a lot of people had to see me with it for the first time. When you don't see someone everyday, they don't see those changes. Anyways, I feel a sense of "lets not talk about it because I don't want to hurt you" in the air. I don't mind talking about it. I'm not bothered by it at all. Anyways, Maddy did it the best...She's 6 or 7. She goes "Whats that on your face?" and I said "Its oxygen...it helps me breathe." She then replies, "oh, ok...can I have some of your ICEE?" and continues to run off with it. She accepted it, didn't care, still loved me just the same. I guess thats why they didn't say anything to me...because they still love me just the same. God knows, I still love that gang!!
Also, watching Jen and J.P. get married was so nice. She was a beautiful bride. The hardest part was not being able to dance at the recepetion. I miss that. I had to watch everyone else boogie down and I was jealous..Then, when she walked down the aisle, I had to make a conscience effort to not be pulled back into my chair by the O2 cord when jumping up. That kind of stuff is a bummer-a rude reminder of how bad my health is. I used to dance until 2 A.M. without stopping. Now, I need to make sure I have enough O2 in my tank to even make it home. At the time of dance we were almost 3 hrs in to the whole day, and my tank only goes about 4hrs. Plus, I turned it up because I was so darn excited and it was HOT!So I miss dancing...but that will come soon enough. Its not like I was a great dancer anyways haha!
Golf Tournament is coming up, and the Yard Sale...I'm getting excited just because I'm a social butterfly and I can't wait to meet new people hahah Raising money will come in time. The IPAD drawing was a huge success thanks to my cousin, Jenn, and my mother-in-law Cheri, passing out all the IPAD cards. I think we raised a pretty decent amount. I get so scared thinking of the costs that will come up. Here goes another train of thought....
In Arizona, there is a 27yr old girl with CF who recieves something similar to Florida's Medicaid. Well this fund is running out, and they decided the first cuts should be in transplants. Lung, Kidney w/o pancreas, bone marrow, liver transplants in adults will be no longer paid for. She had finally got listed April 20th, but they have told her if Oct 1st comes around and she has not had her transplant, then they cannot pay which means she will not get the transplant. The ignorance of this is they were qouted as saying "Patients with cystic fibrosis who get a lung transplant might get extra time with a good quality of life, but inevitably the CF will reinfect the new lung." This is very much NOT true!! CF is in the DNA, which the new lungs carry different DNA-hence the reason for anti-rejection meds. Why are these people the ones deciding where the costs are cut. If they don't know the facts then how can they judge. Its terribly sad. I think it bothered me so much because Tiffany and I have very similar stories-we've both lived normal lives and both have had to fight to get our costs covered. I pray she gets her lungs in time. And I can't help but wonder what these people would do had it been their child on the list. Oh, and children can still get transplants...but at 26/27 I think her and I both still have a lot of life to live!
I don't know how or what people feel exactly when they see me with it for the first time. It was the first time Sue, Kristen,Zach, Jen, JP, Maddy, Jim...sheesh...a lot of people had to see me with it for the first time. When you don't see someone everyday, they don't see those changes. Anyways, I feel a sense of "lets not talk about it because I don't want to hurt you" in the air. I don't mind talking about it. I'm not bothered by it at all. Anyways, Maddy did it the best...She's 6 or 7. She goes "Whats that on your face?" and I said "Its oxygen...it helps me breathe." She then replies, "oh, ok...can I have some of your ICEE?" and continues to run off with it. She accepted it, didn't care, still loved me just the same. I guess thats why they didn't say anything to me...because they still love me just the same. God knows, I still love that gang!!
Also, watching Jen and J.P. get married was so nice. She was a beautiful bride. The hardest part was not being able to dance at the recepetion. I miss that. I had to watch everyone else boogie down and I was jealous..Then, when she walked down the aisle, I had to make a conscience effort to not be pulled back into my chair by the O2 cord when jumping up. That kind of stuff is a bummer-a rude reminder of how bad my health is. I used to dance until 2 A.M. without stopping. Now, I need to make sure I have enough O2 in my tank to even make it home. At the time of dance we were almost 3 hrs in to the whole day, and my tank only goes about 4hrs. Plus, I turned it up because I was so darn excited and it was HOT!So I miss dancing...but that will come soon enough. Its not like I was a great dancer anyways haha!
Golf Tournament is coming up, and the Yard Sale...I'm getting excited just because I'm a social butterfly and I can't wait to meet new people hahah Raising money will come in time. The IPAD drawing was a huge success thanks to my cousin, Jenn, and my mother-in-law Cheri, passing out all the IPAD cards. I think we raised a pretty decent amount. I get so scared thinking of the costs that will come up. Here goes another train of thought....
In Arizona, there is a 27yr old girl with CF who recieves something similar to Florida's Medicaid. Well this fund is running out, and they decided the first cuts should be in transplants. Lung, Kidney w/o pancreas, bone marrow, liver transplants in adults will be no longer paid for. She had finally got listed April 20th, but they have told her if Oct 1st comes around and she has not had her transplant, then they cannot pay which means she will not get the transplant. The ignorance of this is they were qouted as saying "Patients with cystic fibrosis who get a lung transplant might get extra time with a good quality of life, but inevitably the CF will reinfect the new lung." This is very much NOT true!! CF is in the DNA, which the new lungs carry different DNA-hence the reason for anti-rejection meds. Why are these people the ones deciding where the costs are cut. If they don't know the facts then how can they judge. Its terribly sad. I think it bothered me so much because Tiffany and I have very similar stories-we've both lived normal lives and both have had to fight to get our costs covered. I pray she gets her lungs in time. And I can't help but wonder what these people would do had it been their child on the list. Oh, and children can still get transplants...but at 26/27 I think her and I both still have a lot of life to live!
Monday, June 14, 2010
Congrats Lynn (Susan) Fort...you got the IPAD =) I hope you have a blast with it. Thanks goes to everyone who donated and helped spread the word about the fundraiser! We have more coming up (a yard sale and golf tournament). And a BIG thank you to my cousin's family-The Zani's-without them this wouldn't be possible. HUGS!
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Sandcastles
Yesterday was slightly rough. I'm usually a pretty tough cookie, I can handle the emotional components of having Cystic Fibrosis. I know the ropes-things aren't always easy, but I take it and make the best. But yesterday, last night actually, I crumbled.
My friend Maureen (Mo) has been pretty ill lately. I've known her since we were knee high to a grasshopper. We used to be snot nosed little girls running through Sunny Shores Sea Camp thinking we were in charge of things. She's the boss lady. She has so much sass in her-and its what I love most about her. She never takes crap from anyone, and my goodness she could make me laugh so hard I could black out from laughter! But she is sick now, and I can't even read her perky little updates on Facebook. It hurts. In fact, it aches, my heart is breaking for her. She's on a vent right now, and things are not looking to positive. But she is a pistol, and a fighter, and I know she won't let this little battle get in her way. She's been blessed with the most loving family and friends-and she knows this, and knows how we love her. I selfishly hope she keeps fighting, even if it is for us and not herself anymore. I want one more time to see her and have her make me smile.
All this happening had opened up a wound with CF that I tend to try and hide with positive mental bandages. When I first became really sick, Jon described myself as being a "sandcastle" to him. At first I didn't understand. But when you have a sandcastle, and its nice and compacted with hard sand, and you go to hug it and love it crumbles away from you. This is how it feels having friends with CF. I love them so much, and I wouldn't want to NOT know them, but the more I love the more it feels they are washed away from me. It becomes hard. I only have a handful of CF friends still alive, and I make more all the time, but the ones who've been taken away that have made a large impact on my heart. When I fight, I fight in their honor. Some don't make it because of things they did, the way the took care of themselves-and I learn from it- as if that was why God gave them to me in the first place. I'm at an age now where I have seen more friends go than most people have lost in a lifetime. And Mo fighting this battle has made this pain come to the surface. I don't want to lose anyone else. My mind is not ready. Neither is my heart.
All that being said, yesterday on the way home from dinner, I just crumbled in the car. I was sobbing uncontrollably, inconsolably. Poor Jon didn't know what to say or how to comfort me, because he to knows what its like to love a sandcastle that is being washed away. We both agree though, it is hard to watch the castles being swept to sea- we love,cherish, and adore every mintue we got to play and enjoy the sandcastle. This time here, in my sandcastle, is the most precious time I have.
My friend Maureen (Mo) has been pretty ill lately. I've known her since we were knee high to a grasshopper. We used to be snot nosed little girls running through Sunny Shores Sea Camp thinking we were in charge of things. She's the boss lady. She has so much sass in her-and its what I love most about her. She never takes crap from anyone, and my goodness she could make me laugh so hard I could black out from laughter! But she is sick now, and I can't even read her perky little updates on Facebook. It hurts. In fact, it aches, my heart is breaking for her. She's on a vent right now, and things are not looking to positive. But she is a pistol, and a fighter, and I know she won't let this little battle get in her way. She's been blessed with the most loving family and friends-and she knows this, and knows how we love her. I selfishly hope she keeps fighting, even if it is for us and not herself anymore. I want one more time to see her and have her make me smile.
All this happening had opened up a wound with CF that I tend to try and hide with positive mental bandages. When I first became really sick, Jon described myself as being a "sandcastle" to him. At first I didn't understand. But when you have a sandcastle, and its nice and compacted with hard sand, and you go to hug it and love it crumbles away from you. This is how it feels having friends with CF. I love them so much, and I wouldn't want to NOT know them, but the more I love the more it feels they are washed away from me. It becomes hard. I only have a handful of CF friends still alive, and I make more all the time, but the ones who've been taken away that have made a large impact on my heart. When I fight, I fight in their honor. Some don't make it because of things they did, the way the took care of themselves-and I learn from it- as if that was why God gave them to me in the first place. I'm at an age now where I have seen more friends go than most people have lost in a lifetime. And Mo fighting this battle has made this pain come to the surface. I don't want to lose anyone else. My mind is not ready. Neither is my heart.
All that being said, yesterday on the way home from dinner, I just crumbled in the car. I was sobbing uncontrollably, inconsolably. Poor Jon didn't know what to say or how to comfort me, because he to knows what its like to love a sandcastle that is being washed away. We both agree though, it is hard to watch the castles being swept to sea- we love,cherish, and adore every mintue we got to play and enjoy the sandcastle. This time here, in my sandcastle, is the most precious time I have.
Thursday, May 27, 2010
$10 for an IPAD
This post is coming from Ashley's cousin, Jenn. Please continue to read and join us in our IPAD giveaway! In an effort to help as much we can, our family is going to have a giveaway. We will be purchasing a brand new IPAD. From May 1st-31st we will be running this giveaway. I will post details here and every day on Facebook.
For every $10 donation that is made to Ashley's transplant fund, an entry will be made on your behalf to the IPAD giveaway.
Please make sure that you click on the red "contribute now" button on the left side of the page above Ashley's picture. For multiple enteries to count, they must be done in $10 increments. If you make 2 $10 donations, you will have 2 enteries. If you make 10 $10 donations, you will have 10 enteries. The donations go directly to the National Transplant Assistance Fund and they are tax deductible. In addition to an IPAD entry for every $10 donation you make, our family will donate $1 for every person whom makes a donation.
Ashley will randomly select a winner June 14th. This will allow for all of the donations to be posted and every entry counted. Ashley will have herself video taped as she randomly selects the winner. The video will be posted here and also on Facebook. I am hopeful that this great idea will work out as great for Ashley as it did for the children in Kenya whom benefited from a fundraiser just like this one.
Please share this with friends, family, on your facebook or on your own blog. The more aware we can make people about the challenges that people face in getting the proper medical care, the more good we can do. Thank you in advance for your support and thank you for taking the time to read about Ashley and her newest adventure.
$10 can make a world of difference and give someone the GIFT OF BREATHING!
To make your TAX DEDUCTIBLE contribution today, go to http://www.ntafund.org/find-a-patient/profile/index.cfm/patient/8709F3F5-F91C-86EB-6D967F9A587472CE and click on the red "contribute now" button.
Neither Apple nor the National Transplant Assistance Fund are a part of this fund raiser. Neither have supplied any material or endorsement All proceeds are to benefit the National Transplant Assistance Fund in honor of Ashley Kennen.
A look at why we are doing this fundraiser - Ashley, through someone else's eyes:
Ashley is my 26 year old cousin who at the age of 9 months was diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis (CF). It is a genetic disease that is basically the overproduction of mucus. Right now, Ashley is facing a huge hurdle in her life. She is at the point in this disease where she requires a lung transplant to be able to continue to breathe.
Ashley is an amazing woman and just like a sister to me. She has managed, despite having CF, to go to college and get her degree. She got a job as an ultra sound technician, bought a house, and is now married and the proud mama of 2 dogs. She has made something of her life when faced with much less than ideal of cirumstances. We are all faced with challenges in life. While hers may be greater than some others, we all push through and we all survive. That is just what Ashley is trying to do.
Because Ashley went to school and got a job, she lost the title of "disabled". Disability and Social Security benefits ended - which as long as you are able to work and be a productive member of society, I understand. But what I don't understand is why now, when being a productive member of society is what Ashley is struggling with - per her disease, she can no longer receive those benefits. It is a 2 year process to reclaim the Disability status. She does not have 2 years to wait for those lungs. Had she simply lived off of those benefits and not gotten a job or gone to school - there would be no problem and they would be available to her. Does that process make sense at all?
Ashley is in need of her lung transplant. They have insurance, but the costs of such a transplant (mainly care and medicinal after transplant) far exceed that which insurance covers. All would be completely paid for with Social Security and Disability had she not gotten a job - but she did.
Ashley went 2 weeks ago for an evaluation. There is a small window of opportunity to do a transplant on a CF patient (and I assume any transplant patient). You must be sick enough to take the risk of surgery and rejection, yet healthy enough to with stand the surgery and come off the ventilator. Last Thursday Ashley found out that she is, in fact, an ideal candidate for the transplant at this time in her health. However, due to insurance restrictions, they will not list her.
Niether Ashley, nor her family are going to let insurance and regulations stop her from breathing. We will do whatever we can to help, and hope you will join. Ashley will be enjoying her new lungs while one of you will enjoy your new IPAD.
For every $10 donation that is made to Ashley's transplant fund, an entry will be made on your behalf to the IPAD giveaway.
Please make sure that you click on the red "contribute now" button on the left side of the page above Ashley's picture. For multiple enteries to count, they must be done in $10 increments. If you make 2 $10 donations, you will have 2 enteries. If you make 10 $10 donations, you will have 10 enteries. The donations go directly to the National Transplant Assistance Fund and they are tax deductible. In addition to an IPAD entry for every $10 donation you make, our family will donate $1 for every person whom makes a donation.
Ashley will randomly select a winner June 14th. This will allow for all of the donations to be posted and every entry counted. Ashley will have herself video taped as she randomly selects the winner. The video will be posted here and also on Facebook. I am hopeful that this great idea will work out as great for Ashley as it did for the children in Kenya whom benefited from a fundraiser just like this one.
Please share this with friends, family, on your facebook or on your own blog. The more aware we can make people about the challenges that people face in getting the proper medical care, the more good we can do. Thank you in advance for your support and thank you for taking the time to read about Ashley and her newest adventure.
$10 can make a world of difference and give someone the GIFT OF BREATHING!
To make your TAX DEDUCTIBLE contribution today, go to http://www.ntafund.org/find-a-patient/profile/index.cfm/patient/8709F3F5-F91C-86EB-6D967F9A587472CE and click on the red "contribute now" button.
Neither Apple nor the National Transplant Assistance Fund are a part of this fund raiser. Neither have supplied any material or endorsement All proceeds are to benefit the National Transplant Assistance Fund in honor of Ashley Kennen.
A look at why we are doing this fundraiser - Ashley, through someone else's eyes:
Ashley is my 26 year old cousin who at the age of 9 months was diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis (CF). It is a genetic disease that is basically the overproduction of mucus. Right now, Ashley is facing a huge hurdle in her life. She is at the point in this disease where she requires a lung transplant to be able to continue to breathe.
Ashley is an amazing woman and just like a sister to me. She has managed, despite having CF, to go to college and get her degree. She got a job as an ultra sound technician, bought a house, and is now married and the proud mama of 2 dogs. She has made something of her life when faced with much less than ideal of cirumstances. We are all faced with challenges in life. While hers may be greater than some others, we all push through and we all survive. That is just what Ashley is trying to do.
Because Ashley went to school and got a job, she lost the title of "disabled". Disability and Social Security benefits ended - which as long as you are able to work and be a productive member of society, I understand. But what I don't understand is why now, when being a productive member of society is what Ashley is struggling with - per her disease, she can no longer receive those benefits. It is a 2 year process to reclaim the Disability status. She does not have 2 years to wait for those lungs. Had she simply lived off of those benefits and not gotten a job or gone to school - there would be no problem and they would be available to her. Does that process make sense at all?
Ashley is in need of her lung transplant. They have insurance, but the costs of such a transplant (mainly care and medicinal after transplant) far exceed that which insurance covers. All would be completely paid for with Social Security and Disability had she not gotten a job - but she did.
Ashley went 2 weeks ago for an evaluation. There is a small window of opportunity to do a transplant on a CF patient (and I assume any transplant patient). You must be sick enough to take the risk of surgery and rejection, yet healthy enough to with stand the surgery and come off the ventilator. Last Thursday Ashley found out that she is, in fact, an ideal candidate for the transplant at this time in her health. However, due to insurance restrictions, they will not list her.
Niether Ashley, nor her family are going to let insurance and regulations stop her from breathing. We will do whatever we can to help, and hope you will join. Ashley will be enjoying her new lungs while one of you will enjoy your new IPAD.
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Finally
Life is finally coming together! As you know, I had been having some issues with switching from Medicaid w/ HMO to just Share of Cost(SOC)...For some reason, they can only 1/2 get it right at that place! I've been told that the SOC was added, but the HMO cannot be removed until June 1st. Thank goodness the CF Freedom Pharmacy (a little shout out!) was able to send me my meds anyways, and back bill for them. They helped me out a lot. I had got home from a rough day, and there was a HUGE box on my door step filled to the brim with my meds. It was a little like Christmas for me =).So now, I wait until June 1st to come in hopes that all falls into place with no bumps in the road. I had involved Senator Nelsons office in the whole ordeal in hopes to expedite things, but at this point I am just fighting to get things switched 1-2 weeks sooner than they will be solved on their own. Anyways, it will be fine I'm sure!
June 2nd I have a CF clinic appointment. I'm kind of excited to meet (hopefully) Dr.Rolfe. I've heard awesome things about him. I also hope to catch up with some people in Tampa while I'm there. Everytime I go, I try to see who I can when I can.
So I've mentioned before I love where I work. And some people can't understand why...LOL...but here's a great reason: the people. The girls I work with have arranged a Yard Sale to help raise money for my transplant.(June 26/27, July 10/11, and July 24/25) in Lady Lake. Super excited about it, but mostly honored. I feel unworthy of such kindness-I just hope the girls know I would do it for them anytime too. I so hope to be healed quickly so I can go back to work there if they'll take me back! (July 7th I'll have been there 2 years!)
Also, another cool event coming up was arranged by my Father and Mother-in-Law. They've arranged a golf tourney July 17th (July will be a busy month for us!) in Ocala. Don't have all the details quite yet, but when I get them I'll get it posted. Again, I'm very honored they've taken the time to get this together for me. I love them just like my own parents...and not many can say that about their in-laws LOL.
Today, I'm feeling pretty chipper...saw my Dad, going to watch some shows I missed b/c I go to sleep so darn early, and then going to clean the house up. Can't wait to see the hubby and discuss what we're going to do with our little garden. Its SO cute! I can't wait to actually have food on it! The downside to it all, is I can't really help tooooo much, because M.R.S.A is in soil, and is potentially deadly to me...but I like to help pick what we plant and help with the landscaping.
Anyways, I hope everyone is doing well =) And please say a little prayer for a fellow CFer of mine Maureen (Mo). She's been battling an infection from her port that has knocked her off her feet pretty good. She's a survivor though, and I'm sure she'll be back to her sassy self soon enough!
June 2nd I have a CF clinic appointment. I'm kind of excited to meet (hopefully) Dr.Rolfe. I've heard awesome things about him. I also hope to catch up with some people in Tampa while I'm there. Everytime I go, I try to see who I can when I can.
So I've mentioned before I love where I work. And some people can't understand why...LOL...but here's a great reason: the people. The girls I work with have arranged a Yard Sale to help raise money for my transplant.(June 26/27, July 10/11, and July 24/25) in Lady Lake. Super excited about it, but mostly honored. I feel unworthy of such kindness-I just hope the girls know I would do it for them anytime too. I so hope to be healed quickly so I can go back to work there if they'll take me back! (July 7th I'll have been there 2 years!)
Also, another cool event coming up was arranged by my Father and Mother-in-Law. They've arranged a golf tourney July 17th (July will be a busy month for us!) in Ocala. Don't have all the details quite yet, but when I get them I'll get it posted. Again, I'm very honored they've taken the time to get this together for me. I love them just like my own parents...and not many can say that about their in-laws LOL.
Today, I'm feeling pretty chipper...saw my Dad, going to watch some shows I missed b/c I go to sleep so darn early, and then going to clean the house up. Can't wait to see the hubby and discuss what we're going to do with our little garden. Its SO cute! I can't wait to actually have food on it! The downside to it all, is I can't really help tooooo much, because M.R.S.A is in soil, and is potentially deadly to me...but I like to help pick what we plant and help with the landscaping.
Anyways, I hope everyone is doing well =) And please say a little prayer for a fellow CFer of mine Maureen (Mo). She's been battling an infection from her port that has knocked her off her feet pretty good. She's a survivor though, and I'm sure she'll be back to her sassy self soon enough!
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Family
My family is pretty tough. In fact, tougher than I am. My Dad tells me stories of when I was just a little baby, and how I was always so sick. He was going shopping with my Mom and his Mom, but they left Dad and I in the car. I was still a baby, so Dad crammed himself into the backseat of the two door car to sit next to me. Once I started fussing, he picked me up-and I exploded like a time bomb! Out both ends, all over the poor guy! And he didn't even throw me! ...Now that is love!
Or what about the time I was in the hospital, I was about 14, and a nurse kept insisting that these two drugs could be combined-and I kept telling her they couldn't. Finally, at 4 a.m that morning, I called my Mom crying telling her to call someone quick because this RN was trying to kill me! Thank God my Mom is a RN too! Things got under control shortly after, but my Mom was there to answer my call immediately.
Then there was my little brother. Oh the fights we have fought! We're about 5 1/2 years apart and light years away in our thinking. But the one time I had appendicitis he was there. I could barely get out of the chair, and he carried me to the car, like a superhero, so I could get to the hospital. His girlfriend has even come to Leesburg to help me go shopping (no really, I needed help). LOL
And my cousin, Jenn...She recently had an experience with me, poor girl. After watching that tube being shoved down my nose and having myself leak out of every pore in my body, she still took me out to eat after! She was prepared to even stay the night with me! Only then did I really test her, when I had a reappearing act of my chicken and wild rice soup leap across the table, which she caught with a plate AND had no spills. Pretty nifty.
My Grandpa and his girlfriend Janette, they're pretty awesome too. Grandpa comes up with her bringing huge meals already made so Jon and I don't have to cook. And Grandpa is always entertaining!
My husband had to bathe me for a while. It was a definite change in our relationship. You are in love and committed when you get married, but when you bathe,dress, and clean up puke from the one you love-its a whole other level. He has had to see things that scare even me. And when he got sick,the ONE time he has, I was a nervous wreck! How does he do it?
My family has done this stuff for me out of love. Maybe I've only mentioned a little here, but its more than anyone would careor have time to read about. And as much love as they give, I feel I could never be able to show my gratitude. They have helped me survive. They are why I survive. And I'll keep pushing for them.
Or what about the time I was in the hospital, I was about 14, and a nurse kept insisting that these two drugs could be combined-and I kept telling her they couldn't. Finally, at 4 a.m that morning, I called my Mom crying telling her to call someone quick because this RN was trying to kill me! Thank God my Mom is a RN too! Things got under control shortly after, but my Mom was there to answer my call immediately.
Then there was my little brother. Oh the fights we have fought! We're about 5 1/2 years apart and light years away in our thinking. But the one time I had appendicitis he was there. I could barely get out of the chair, and he carried me to the car, like a superhero, so I could get to the hospital. His girlfriend has even come to Leesburg to help me go shopping (no really, I needed help). LOL
And my cousin, Jenn...She recently had an experience with me, poor girl. After watching that tube being shoved down my nose and having myself leak out of every pore in my body, she still took me out to eat after! She was prepared to even stay the night with me! Only then did I really test her, when I had a reappearing act of my chicken and wild rice soup leap across the table, which she caught with a plate AND had no spills. Pretty nifty.
My Grandpa and his girlfriend Janette, they're pretty awesome too. Grandpa comes up with her bringing huge meals already made so Jon and I don't have to cook. And Grandpa is always entertaining!
My husband had to bathe me for a while. It was a definite change in our relationship. You are in love and committed when you get married, but when you bathe,dress, and clean up puke from the one you love-its a whole other level. He has had to see things that scare even me. And when he got sick,the ONE time he has, I was a nervous wreck! How does he do it?
My family has done this stuff for me out of love. Maybe I've only mentioned a little here, but its more than anyone would careor have time to read about. And as much love as they give, I feel I could never be able to show my gratitude. They have helped me survive. They are why I survive. And I'll keep pushing for them.
Friday, May 7, 2010
I'M OFFICIAL!!!
Well its official...I can finally say it...."I'm on the lung transplant list!!!" So very happy and grateful this ordeal of just being listed is over-for now. I say for now, because it can always change with the wind.
Wednesday, my cousin Jenn headed south to stay the night with me only to wake up the next morning and drive another 2 hours south to Tampa. Poor girl had to see a lot! She watched as a tube that was like 2 1/2 spaghetti noodles around was inserted into my nose and down my esophagus, then slowly pulled out as I sipped water. Seems clean enough, right? WRONG! I was drooling and my nose was running and I was crying...I was truly a baby! But my goodness it hurt!!! It would hit my gag areas and as soon as I thought I was settled and it was okay, they'd move it again! Not fun! Then, they took an even smaller tube and put it down my nose and down the back of my throat. This was supposed to stay in place for 24 hours to monitor what happens with the esophagus when I cough, eat, burp...etc. Well I was told to eat only hot stuff and that would make the tube more comfortable. Within two hours I was puking and unable to breathe! I felt like I couldn't get enough air in, and I had no idea how I was going to sleep with it in either. After losing lunch all over Panera (who wasn't very good sports about it and tossed our food before we were done) I had to take the tube out and throw the towel in. I tried. I really did, but it was way to scary not being able to catch my breath, gag, and cough...too much! So we had waited around to see if TGH would be able to see me then, to sign the magical papers- but no, I had to head home.
So last night, after being allowed my savior-Prilosec...and Tramadol, I had gotten some extra energy and cleaned the house. I love that my husband and everyone else tries to keep my house straight when I can't-but the house was missing my OCD touch! LOL So it wasn't until about 10pm I finally crashed and got ready for today.
Now today had a weird start. I was very, very cranky the whole morning, and the whole way there. I have no clue why. It could have been nerves that I wasn't acknowledging. When we finally got in and saw the first receptionist who said "Its a big day for you isn't it", then I got excited! She had me do paperwork, get blood drawn, weight, and PFTs- then I could see the transplant coordinator and the doc. Well, the good news is I haven't lost any more weight-may not be gaining, but I'm certainly not losing. And my PFTs were pretty stable. I had to walk for the doc with a oxygen saturation monitor on (and myself and the RN think the SAT monitor was broken), only to find he wants me on 4 Liters if I'm moving around. Ok, no biggie. Plus, he said it would add points to my ALOC score (I'll get back to the meaning of that when I get the papers out of the car). But this number is basically on a scale of 1-100 and 100 is the worst health, they would not do a transplant then. and at 1, you probably wouldn't be listed. I was 37 =) (For those who know me, notice no 9's!!) He is trying to add a point or so I think by upping the O2. I have about a 6-12 month wait now. Any day or time I can get the call to start my new life....I can go back to the old me, but new and improved! How exciting! I have so much more to ramble about, so I'm thinking I'll have another blog come Sunday. Happy Mother's Day!! I hope all the Mom's out there get the love they give....I know my Mom and Mother-in-law are pretty super, so I hope to give them a great day. Tonight, I'm going to breathe a little easier knowing that any moment I will being breathing freely!!! LOTS OF LOVE TO ALL OF YOU!!!! XOXO
Wednesday, my cousin Jenn headed south to stay the night with me only to wake up the next morning and drive another 2 hours south to Tampa. Poor girl had to see a lot! She watched as a tube that was like 2 1/2 spaghetti noodles around was inserted into my nose and down my esophagus, then slowly pulled out as I sipped water. Seems clean enough, right? WRONG! I was drooling and my nose was running and I was crying...I was truly a baby! But my goodness it hurt!!! It would hit my gag areas and as soon as I thought I was settled and it was okay, they'd move it again! Not fun! Then, they took an even smaller tube and put it down my nose and down the back of my throat. This was supposed to stay in place for 24 hours to monitor what happens with the esophagus when I cough, eat, burp...etc. Well I was told to eat only hot stuff and that would make the tube more comfortable. Within two hours I was puking and unable to breathe! I felt like I couldn't get enough air in, and I had no idea how I was going to sleep with it in either. After losing lunch all over Panera (who wasn't very good sports about it and tossed our food before we were done) I had to take the tube out and throw the towel in. I tried. I really did, but it was way to scary not being able to catch my breath, gag, and cough...too much! So we had waited around to see if TGH would be able to see me then, to sign the magical papers- but no, I had to head home.
So last night, after being allowed my savior-Prilosec...and Tramadol, I had gotten some extra energy and cleaned the house. I love that my husband and everyone else tries to keep my house straight when I can't-but the house was missing my OCD touch! LOL So it wasn't until about 10pm I finally crashed and got ready for today.
Now today had a weird start. I was very, very cranky the whole morning, and the whole way there. I have no clue why. It could have been nerves that I wasn't acknowledging. When we finally got in and saw the first receptionist who said "Its a big day for you isn't it", then I got excited! She had me do paperwork, get blood drawn, weight, and PFTs- then I could see the transplant coordinator and the doc. Well, the good news is I haven't lost any more weight-may not be gaining, but I'm certainly not losing. And my PFTs were pretty stable. I had to walk for the doc with a oxygen saturation monitor on (and myself and the RN think the SAT monitor was broken), only to find he wants me on 4 Liters if I'm moving around. Ok, no biggie. Plus, he said it would add points to my ALOC score (I'll get back to the meaning of that when I get the papers out of the car). But this number is basically on a scale of 1-100 and 100 is the worst health, they would not do a transplant then. and at 1, you probably wouldn't be listed. I was 37 =) (For those who know me, notice no 9's!!) He is trying to add a point or so I think by upping the O2. I have about a 6-12 month wait now. Any day or time I can get the call to start my new life....I can go back to the old me, but new and improved! How exciting! I have so much more to ramble about, so I'm thinking I'll have another blog come Sunday. Happy Mother's Day!! I hope all the Mom's out there get the love they give....I know my Mom and Mother-in-law are pretty super, so I hope to give them a great day. Tonight, I'm going to breathe a little easier knowing that any moment I will being breathing freely!!! LOTS OF LOVE TO ALL OF YOU!!!! XOXO
Monday, May 3, 2010
My Accessories
Recently I learned how curious people are. I've had to add an accessory or two to manage to be able to go out in public. Somedays, I use a wheelchair since my fatigue can make it pretty hard to get things done. And somedays, most days, I have portable oxygen. I am sure almost everyone has seen someone in a wheelchair or with O2 at some point in their life, but each look I get is as if its a new thing. And I understand. Curiosity, as innocent as it may be, can sometimes be cruel.
Most people will look once, then twice, then keep going. But others, and I'm surprised to say this, but older people can be the worst. They stare. If they had laser eyes I'd be fried! I want people to ask me why I'm being wheeled around. I look perfectly healthy on the outside- if you don't notice the clubbed toes and fingers from years of lack of O2. So I can understand questioning-why is she being wheeled around? And the oxygen isn't easy to hide either. While some days I can mask the tank under my purse there are days when all I carry is the oxygen. Its a distraction from what we are taught to look at when talking to someone-their eyes. I even did the "stare" before I was in this position. Its all curiousity, and thats okay....but ask. The other day in a store a little girl asked , "Mommy, why is that lady being pushed in a chair? And whats that thingy on her face?" I just smiled. I could tell the Mom was embarrassed, she mouthed "sorry" to me, and told her daughter "Its not nice to stare. She doesn't feel well." And ya know, the Mom nailed it on the head. I don't feel well.
I hope people can become educated about Cystic Fibrosis enough so that one day when I say "I have Cystic Fibrosis" they can say "Oh! I know all about it. Its genetic right?And it affects your lungs and pancreas mainly. How are you doing?" This month is Cystic Fibrosis awareness month and I encourage those who don't feel they know enough about it to do some research. The most informative site is http://www.cff.org/ With all kinds of questions and answers. And if your a new Mom or a Mom-to-be, make sure your child is evaluated for it!...annnnd HAPPY EARLY MOTHER'S DAY! =)
Most people will look once, then twice, then keep going. But others, and I'm surprised to say this, but older people can be the worst. They stare. If they had laser eyes I'd be fried! I want people to ask me why I'm being wheeled around. I look perfectly healthy on the outside- if you don't notice the clubbed toes and fingers from years of lack of O2. So I can understand questioning-why is she being wheeled around? And the oxygen isn't easy to hide either. While some days I can mask the tank under my purse there are days when all I carry is the oxygen. Its a distraction from what we are taught to look at when talking to someone-their eyes. I even did the "stare" before I was in this position. Its all curiousity, and thats okay....but ask. The other day in a store a little girl asked , "Mommy, why is that lady being pushed in a chair? And whats that thingy on her face?" I just smiled. I could tell the Mom was embarrassed, she mouthed "sorry" to me, and told her daughter "Its not nice to stare. She doesn't feel well." And ya know, the Mom nailed it on the head. I don't feel well.
I hope people can become educated about Cystic Fibrosis enough so that one day when I say "I have Cystic Fibrosis" they can say "Oh! I know all about it. Its genetic right?And it affects your lungs and pancreas mainly. How are you doing?" This month is Cystic Fibrosis awareness month and I encourage those who don't feel they know enough about it to do some research. The most informative site is http://www.cff.org/ With all kinds of questions and answers. And if your a new Mom or a Mom-to-be, make sure your child is evaluated for it!...annnnd HAPPY EARLY MOTHER'S DAY! =)
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Still Kicking
Well today I got some things figured out. Sort of. My Mom has done a lot of the hard work for me. I kind of gave up for a few hours yesterday. I threw in the towel. I had to work yesterday (thank God because if I stayed home I would've lost my mind even more so!). Before work I had to call Medicaid, yet again, to clarify that I should have Share of Cost (SOC). I had gone to the lady doc on Monday to get clearance for transplant, and they ran my insurance and it said again that I had HMO Medicaid. I was fuming, this was all supposed to be resolved on Friday. But by the time the appointment was over I was too late to call that day.
So Tuesday came and I had a few hours in the morning to do my treatments and get ready for work. So I called Medicaid to see what happened and where the mistake was - AGAIN! After being on hold off and on for 45 minutes (mind you, I'm on my cell phone) they told me I don't have SOC and I won't have it until June. Okay, I had been told that before. But I was also told they changed it. It didn't help that the lady was completely rude to me. She didn't understand that each time I talk to someone there, I hear a different story. Well, today I finally talked to DCF patients services and she was able to clarify everything. When I applied for the SOC, my husbands info was left out. I did not intend to 'mislead' them. We had asked several times while filling out the application at the DCF office if we should include him. Each time the 16 year old attendant declared that because it was for me, he was to be left off. So we did just that. This is the whole reason things have been so confusing since then! Well, I gave them my husband's information and things should be cleared tomorrow.
I have to reach my SOC (which I found out is actually $1849) most likely in the beginning of the month for it to show that I have SOC, otherwise it will show I have Medicaid. So tomorrow I need to pick a pharmacy and get all my drugs ordered so that it can go into effect. Hopefully, this will allow Tampa to see that I have SOC and not Medicaid. It'd also help if the financial lady there would call me back, but that's a whole other blog. Are you confused yet? LOL....I hate that its this complicated, as if my health isn't complicated enough.
In the end, I've learned a lot in the past few days. I have an amazing family. My Mom took over and fought for me when I thought there was no use. She called Senators, e-mailed everyone, and made millions of phone calls. She is stronger than I am in so many ways. I'm not saying I don't think I'm worth the fight, but when it gets hard sometimes its easier to not deal with it. She gives me the strength to re-focus and refuel and get back on my game.
Tomorrow, my ear will hurt from the many phone calls I need to make. But I'm ready. I want these lungs, I want to breathe when I laugh. I want to be able to laugh. I feel I hold back because I know it will lead to choking. I want to be able to chase my dogs in the yard like they beg me to. I want to be able to pick up my baby cousin and chase the other at the same time. I'm ready. When I get down, and those nasty people try to keep me down, I need to bring myself back to those thoughts. I'm blessed to have the love and support I have. And I love everyone back just as much. Even if I never get listed- I know I am loved.
So Tuesday came and I had a few hours in the morning to do my treatments and get ready for work. So I called Medicaid to see what happened and where the mistake was - AGAIN! After being on hold off and on for 45 minutes (mind you, I'm on my cell phone) they told me I don't have SOC and I won't have it until June. Okay, I had been told that before. But I was also told they changed it. It didn't help that the lady was completely rude to me. She didn't understand that each time I talk to someone there, I hear a different story. Well, today I finally talked to DCF patients services and she was able to clarify everything. When I applied for the SOC, my husbands info was left out. I did not intend to 'mislead' them. We had asked several times while filling out the application at the DCF office if we should include him. Each time the 16 year old attendant declared that because it was for me, he was to be left off. So we did just that. This is the whole reason things have been so confusing since then! Well, I gave them my husband's information and things should be cleared tomorrow.
I have to reach my SOC (which I found out is actually $1849) most likely in the beginning of the month for it to show that I have SOC, otherwise it will show I have Medicaid. So tomorrow I need to pick a pharmacy and get all my drugs ordered so that it can go into effect. Hopefully, this will allow Tampa to see that I have SOC and not Medicaid. It'd also help if the financial lady there would call me back, but that's a whole other blog. Are you confused yet? LOL....I hate that its this complicated, as if my health isn't complicated enough.
In the end, I've learned a lot in the past few days. I have an amazing family. My Mom took over and fought for me when I thought there was no use. She called Senators, e-mailed everyone, and made millions of phone calls. She is stronger than I am in so many ways. I'm not saying I don't think I'm worth the fight, but when it gets hard sometimes its easier to not deal with it. She gives me the strength to re-focus and refuel and get back on my game.
Tomorrow, my ear will hurt from the many phone calls I need to make. But I'm ready. I want these lungs, I want to breathe when I laugh. I want to be able to laugh. I feel I hold back because I know it will lead to choking. I want to be able to chase my dogs in the yard like they beg me to. I want to be able to pick up my baby cousin and chase the other at the same time. I'm ready. When I get down, and those nasty people try to keep me down, I need to bring myself back to those thoughts. I'm blessed to have the love and support I have. And I love everyone back just as much. Even if I never get listed- I know I am loved.
Sunday, April 25, 2010
The Last 3 days...
Wow... A lot has happened in the last 3 days, and not all the best of news either. I got the "call" from Tampa General after they had their meeting about whether or not to list me. I was told health wise I was the absolute perfect candidate. But, due to insurance, I'd have too many issues. The good news I took from that was my body is strong enough for the surgery, which means chances of a smooth recovery will be really good. My insurance is something that since I was little, no matter what type I had, has always given me problems. With transplant, the issue is not enough medicinal coverage. A lot of the medication post-transplant HAS to be name brand drugs. Science just has not caught up yet with generics.
So when I was granted "Medicaid" we thought it was the share of costs (SOC), and everything would be fine. But it wasn't. I was granted full blown Medicaid, which I do not qualify for in any way. Ironically, this hurt me instead of benefited me. I won't be able to be listed until I have share of cost Medicaid, which got updated as of Friday morning (woot woot!) The share of cost, for those who don't know, is when I have prescriptions that exceed a certain amount of my income then Medicaid will cover the entire month's bill. Now that is pretty easy for me, seeing as one drug is $1,916 and another is $3,000. Those are the high dollar ones. We're hoping since its been updated and changed I will be able to be listed now. I guess I'll find out sometime this week? Otherwise, I need to wait until Jon's insurance at work is upgraded in June, which may then go into effect in July. Sheesh! I swear, if you weren't born into the madness that is the medical and insurance field, then you could get so lost and drown in it. It's sad, thinking of those who do.
On another note, Friday was also kind of rough because I had had a horrible stomachache for days. (Actually it started the Sunday before, but I dealt with it). I'm going to get personal here, but I think it's important that people know what patients with C.F. have to go through - as graphic and unpleasant as it can get. This stomachache was not getting better, if anything worse. I was going to the bathroom regularly, just not completely. This can be pretty common in CF'ers. Cystic Fibrosis is an over-production of mucous and it is not limited to the lungs. It affects every organ. So, I had an intestinal blockage. Painful...very, very painful. After going to the doctor, because I was vomiting now because I was so impacted, I had to get 3 enemas. NOT fun. In fact, horrible. I also had to drink this icky purple stuff that tasted like what I assume battery acid and grape soda taste like. This caused mayhem...but in the end I felt better. Thank God I have a Mommy who pushes me to my edge sometime, because after enema #1 I was ready to give up. My insides felt like they were going to explode!
After that long, treacherous day I slept almost 11 hours straight. I was so physically exhausted I was in tears. Its so odd how your mind can be completely fine and positive, and your body wants to do something completely opposite. I guess that's what keeps you going though. The positive thinking. The prayers. And of course, knowing my Dad was wanting to take me on the boat the next day. =)
So when I was granted "Medicaid" we thought it was the share of costs (SOC), and everything would be fine. But it wasn't. I was granted full blown Medicaid, which I do not qualify for in any way. Ironically, this hurt me instead of benefited me. I won't be able to be listed until I have share of cost Medicaid, which got updated as of Friday morning (woot woot!) The share of cost, for those who don't know, is when I have prescriptions that exceed a certain amount of my income then Medicaid will cover the entire month's bill. Now that is pretty easy for me, seeing as one drug is $1,916 and another is $3,000. Those are the high dollar ones. We're hoping since its been updated and changed I will be able to be listed now. I guess I'll find out sometime this week? Otherwise, I need to wait until Jon's insurance at work is upgraded in June, which may then go into effect in July. Sheesh! I swear, if you weren't born into the madness that is the medical and insurance field, then you could get so lost and drown in it. It's sad, thinking of those who do.
On another note, Friday was also kind of rough because I had had a horrible stomachache for days. (Actually it started the Sunday before, but I dealt with it). I'm going to get personal here, but I think it's important that people know what patients with C.F. have to go through - as graphic and unpleasant as it can get. This stomachache was not getting better, if anything worse. I was going to the bathroom regularly, just not completely. This can be pretty common in CF'ers. Cystic Fibrosis is an over-production of mucous and it is not limited to the lungs. It affects every organ. So, I had an intestinal blockage. Painful...very, very painful. After going to the doctor, because I was vomiting now because I was so impacted, I had to get 3 enemas. NOT fun. In fact, horrible. I also had to drink this icky purple stuff that tasted like what I assume battery acid and grape soda taste like. This caused mayhem...but in the end I felt better. Thank God I have a Mommy who pushes me to my edge sometime, because after enema #1 I was ready to give up. My insides felt like they were going to explode!
After that long, treacherous day I slept almost 11 hours straight. I was so physically exhausted I was in tears. Its so odd how your mind can be completely fine and positive, and your body wants to do something completely opposite. I guess that's what keeps you going though. The positive thinking. The prayers. And of course, knowing my Dad was wanting to take me on the boat the next day. =)
Thursday, April 22, 2010
A Day of Rollercoasters
Yesterday was pretty grueling. I woke up with a horrible stomach that has been haunting me for a few days and a "To Do" list that was never-ending. I had a lot of loose ends that needed to be finished-including calling Social Security for an appointment. For those who know me, this is a task I DREAD! Every time I had called in the past to the main office I'd go through the menu as best as I could to get to a person. Well, once I thought I was where I'd get a person, it'd say "All operators are busy at the moment. Please try your call later." AND HANG UP ON ME! I was baffled! I tried for 20 minutes just to get hung up on?! So yesterday, having to call S.S. was not one of my favorite things to do. I got the local office number and gave it a try.
Believe it or not, I was able to reach a person! I explained to her that I had been told about a month ago how much I needed to earn in the first quarter, and that once I reached that I needed to make an appointment. Almost immediately she fought me. She told me, I don't qualify for anything if my husband and I were still married and I was still working. So I patiently tried again to explain to her that I had been TOLD by someone in her office to call and make an appointment, and that person was fully aware of my situation. That's why she asked me to come in, my case is a little more complex. I was declared disabled, but because I chose to work and get married, I became "un-disabled" (if there is such a thing?). The operator was still refusing to hear me out, and kept saying that she couldn't give me an appointment if I was just going to be denied. OMG!
This is when I lost it, I started crying...trying to hold back the tears I basically begged her for an appointment. That's when she got nasty. "Ma'am don't start crying- that ain't going to work here. Stop your crying and listen." I couldn't believe it. Stunned, I started SOBBING. I was out of control. I've been told different things by every single person I had talked to at Social Security and DCF, and it all seemed like no matter what no one cared enough to want to hear me out and help. My sobbing slowly subsided long enough to get an appointment next month. That means its in next quarter (since 1st is Jan-Mar) and I've already began 2nd. So if they say I still haven't worked long enough, then that means I'll have to push myself a little harder to earn the precious amount they want - so that I can become "disabled" again.
This brings me to another point. I was lucky to be healthy enough to make something of my life. I went to college, I built a career doing what I love, and married a man that I love. I didn't shortchange the life I had been given just because I had a life-altering disease. I did and do everything I can, in the past and present. For this, the government no longer sees my having Cystic Fibrosis as a disability. This is a progressive disease. I knew that when I began my studies, when I married my husband. But this never stopped me from trying to postpone the progression. I did a pretty darn good job of that up until recently. People who work with the Disability office should learn some compassion, and not just see if you can categorize each person. Where is the reward for trying and succeeding? I ask this sarcastically, because I have been rewarded in other ways. I love my life and I don't regret a minute of how I have lived it. That's my reward for now, until I get my new lungs =)
Believe it or not, I was able to reach a person! I explained to her that I had been told about a month ago how much I needed to earn in the first quarter, and that once I reached that I needed to make an appointment. Almost immediately she fought me. She told me, I don't qualify for anything if my husband and I were still married and I was still working. So I patiently tried again to explain to her that I had been TOLD by someone in her office to call and make an appointment, and that person was fully aware of my situation. That's why she asked me to come in, my case is a little more complex. I was declared disabled, but because I chose to work and get married, I became "un-disabled" (if there is such a thing?). The operator was still refusing to hear me out, and kept saying that she couldn't give me an appointment if I was just going to be denied. OMG!
This is when I lost it, I started crying...trying to hold back the tears I basically begged her for an appointment. That's when she got nasty. "Ma'am don't start crying- that ain't going to work here. Stop your crying and listen." I couldn't believe it. Stunned, I started SOBBING. I was out of control. I've been told different things by every single person I had talked to at Social Security and DCF, and it all seemed like no matter what no one cared enough to want to hear me out and help. My sobbing slowly subsided long enough to get an appointment next month. That means its in next quarter (since 1st is Jan-Mar) and I've already began 2nd. So if they say I still haven't worked long enough, then that means I'll have to push myself a little harder to earn the precious amount they want - so that I can become "disabled" again.
This brings me to another point. I was lucky to be healthy enough to make something of my life. I went to college, I built a career doing what I love, and married a man that I love. I didn't shortchange the life I had been given just because I had a life-altering disease. I did and do everything I can, in the past and present. For this, the government no longer sees my having Cystic Fibrosis as a disability. This is a progressive disease. I knew that when I began my studies, when I married my husband. But this never stopped me from trying to postpone the progression. I did a pretty darn good job of that up until recently. People who work with the Disability office should learn some compassion, and not just see if you can categorize each person. Where is the reward for trying and succeeding? I ask this sarcastically, because I have been rewarded in other ways. I love my life and I don't regret a minute of how I have lived it. That's my reward for now, until I get my new lungs =)
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
The Road Ahead
Last Wednesday and Thursday I had a LOT of testing done to see if I'm strong enough, yet sick enough for transplant. I had an EKG, echo, esphogram, x-ray, CT, arterial blood gas, 13 vials of blood drawn, a bone density scan, a right heart cath, and a TB test (I think thats all). I met with the social worker, the pyschologist, the pulmonolgist, the dietician, and the surgeon. They all seemed very nice and competent. They explain the donor lungs could come from GA, FL or Puerto Rico.
Once the team receives a call that there may be a potiential donor, they (the surgery team) run tests on the lungs. If it is decided they are good enough, I'll be called in. I have 2 hours to get to the hospital. Once there, they'll run tests on me and make sure I'm ready. Let me tell you - mentally I couldn't be more ready. I went through a period where I was more scared than anything. But now, I realize more than ever how beautiful life and breathing is. I look back to when I was 16 in marching band and realize, man I had some strong lungs then... But of course, you don't know what you've got until its gone. I am ready to breathe.
So anyway, the surgery can take anywhere from 10-12 hours. YES - HOURS! I'm told it's because CF lungs are sticky from the mucous, and we need to be cleaned out a little more. But, I'm also told we do the best with recovery and quality of life afterward =). They have 2 options for the incision sites. They can go under my breast line (called a clamshell) or cuts on my sides - it pretty much depends on my stability when I get there. They usually do under breast for CF patients in case I need to go on the heart-lung machine and they need to do an emergency bypass (kind of neat - kind of scary). So when I wake up, I'll have 4 chest tubes draining the excess fluid from my chest cavity,2 small tubes for drainage, I'll have a ventilator tube in my throat and my arms will be strapped down. I'll also have a catheter for the potty thing, lol. I was warned when I wake up, they will be yelling at me to "BREATHE BREATHE BREATHE!" This is to get me breathing with the ventilator, and not against it. They told me usually the 1st or 2nd day they will take me off the vent, and I'll be BREATHING! On my OWN! With NEW lungs! How cool is that!
I get teary eyed thinking of the miracle of this, really. Someone's family was kind enough to give this gift of air. Of breathing freely. Of living. It's phenomenal! Beautiful! So after that I'll begin an intense rehab. Walking, stretching, using the stationary bike. I have to get strong. Especially my lower body because the first 6 months I need to let my scars heal and becareful not to strain. I can't drive until I'm off pain meds (which will be at least 4-6 months) and I'll need 24 hour care the first 6-8 weeks. Kinda weird, because I'm very independent - or I used to be until I got so sick. I know having new lungs will make me want to do so much, but I'll be restricted. Only for a bit, then I can dance! =) I'll be on a new set of meds: steroids, anti-rejection, laxatives, pain meds and some profilatives (sp?) so I don't get infections. No more salad bars and I'll have to be an even bigger germaphobe than I am now... but so what! At least ya know I'm clean!
So all of this is what I have to look forward too... and I'm excited! I want to run a marathon with my friend Mike, I want to swim with dolphins (getting over a fear of fish), I want to ride my bike on the beach, I want to dance until my feet hurt! I have so many things I want to do...I want to be able to work and give back. I really understand my patients - I've been one my whole life! I think about doing social work for post transplant lung patients too. More school of course. Once the energy I'm giving to breathing can go to living - I'm set. I understand there are challenges I may face, but so what! I face them now... and I'm surviving. I want to be able to absorb every ounce of life! I'm still a newlywed. But right after I got married my health declined rapidly and drastically. So I'm ready to REALLY enjoy my husbands company. Not as a caregiver, but as my husband. So many wonderful things to look forward to.
I want to mention how grateful I am to those who have joined/donated to my cause (Keep Ashley Kennen Breathing). This is the life I face, and for you to not have any idea what it's like in my shoes, yet be compassionate enough to still understand is very admirable. I always say that everyone else is a hero in my eyes because really we are all faced with challenges that may be unspoken. Some greater than others. I want those who are invovled in my cause to know my challenges and triumphs.. no hold backs! I'm grateful to be alive, and ready to be living my life to the max! Thank you...from the bottom of heart!
Once the team receives a call that there may be a potiential donor, they (the surgery team) run tests on the lungs. If it is decided they are good enough, I'll be called in. I have 2 hours to get to the hospital. Once there, they'll run tests on me and make sure I'm ready. Let me tell you - mentally I couldn't be more ready. I went through a period where I was more scared than anything. But now, I realize more than ever how beautiful life and breathing is. I look back to when I was 16 in marching band and realize, man I had some strong lungs then... But of course, you don't know what you've got until its gone. I am ready to breathe.
So anyway, the surgery can take anywhere from 10-12 hours. YES - HOURS! I'm told it's because CF lungs are sticky from the mucous, and we need to be cleaned out a little more. But, I'm also told we do the best with recovery and quality of life afterward =). They have 2 options for the incision sites. They can go under my breast line (called a clamshell) or cuts on my sides - it pretty much depends on my stability when I get there. They usually do under breast for CF patients in case I need to go on the heart-lung machine and they need to do an emergency bypass (kind of neat - kind of scary). So when I wake up, I'll have 4 chest tubes draining the excess fluid from my chest cavity,2 small tubes for drainage, I'll have a ventilator tube in my throat and my arms will be strapped down. I'll also have a catheter for the potty thing, lol. I was warned when I wake up, they will be yelling at me to "BREATHE BREATHE BREATHE!" This is to get me breathing with the ventilator, and not against it. They told me usually the 1st or 2nd day they will take me off the vent, and I'll be BREATHING! On my OWN! With NEW lungs! How cool is that!
I get teary eyed thinking of the miracle of this, really. Someone's family was kind enough to give this gift of air. Of breathing freely. Of living. It's phenomenal! Beautiful! So after that I'll begin an intense rehab. Walking, stretching, using the stationary bike. I have to get strong. Especially my lower body because the first 6 months I need to let my scars heal and becareful not to strain. I can't drive until I'm off pain meds (which will be at least 4-6 months) and I'll need 24 hour care the first 6-8 weeks. Kinda weird, because I'm very independent - or I used to be until I got so sick. I know having new lungs will make me want to do so much, but I'll be restricted. Only for a bit, then I can dance! =) I'll be on a new set of meds: steroids, anti-rejection, laxatives, pain meds and some profilatives (sp?) so I don't get infections. No more salad bars and I'll have to be an even bigger germaphobe than I am now... but so what! At least ya know I'm clean!
So all of this is what I have to look forward too... and I'm excited! I want to run a marathon with my friend Mike, I want to swim with dolphins (getting over a fear of fish), I want to ride my bike on the beach, I want to dance until my feet hurt! I have so many things I want to do...I want to be able to work and give back. I really understand my patients - I've been one my whole life! I think about doing social work for post transplant lung patients too. More school of course. Once the energy I'm giving to breathing can go to living - I'm set. I understand there are challenges I may face, but so what! I face them now... and I'm surviving. I want to be able to absorb every ounce of life! I'm still a newlywed. But right after I got married my health declined rapidly and drastically. So I'm ready to REALLY enjoy my husbands company. Not as a caregiver, but as my husband. So many wonderful things to look forward to.
I want to mention how grateful I am to those who have joined/donated to my cause (Keep Ashley Kennen Breathing). This is the life I face, and for you to not have any idea what it's like in my shoes, yet be compassionate enough to still understand is very admirable. I always say that everyone else is a hero in my eyes because really we are all faced with challenges that may be unspoken. Some greater than others. I want those who are invovled in my cause to know my challenges and triumphs.. no hold backs! I'm grateful to be alive, and ready to be living my life to the max! Thank you...from the bottom of heart!
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
The gift of breathing
This blog was born out of my desire to inform, to journal and to share my experience with Cystic Fibrosis. I am praying for the gift of a lifetime.The gift of breathing. I hope that you will join me on my journey. It might be a bumpy one, but it will literally be the ride of my life!
Cystic Fibrosis (CF) is a progressive lung disease and in the United States affects over 30,000 families. My family is one of them. At the age of 9 months, I was diagnosed with CF and my mother was told I may not make it past the age of 5. With all of the medical challenges put before us, my family and I fought hard to get me to where I am today. I’m 26, I’ve graduated college, have a career and I am happily married. As wonderfully blessed as I have been, I’m now reaching a new crossroad in my life: double lung transplant.
Once I am put on the transplant list, I am told that it is, on average, about a 3 month wait. Being all of 5'2" and 95 lbs, I, however, will need pediatric lungs. This saddens me because I know that my life will continue because a child's ended. But, I vow to live that life to the max. To not waste this amazing gift and to make that child proud! But, because of the type of lungs I need, my wait could, unfortunately, be longer.
Cystic Fibrosis (CF) is a progressive lung disease and in the United States affects over 30,000 families. My family is one of them. At the age of 9 months, I was diagnosed with CF and my mother was told I may not make it past the age of 5. With all of the medical challenges put before us, my family and I fought hard to get me to where I am today. I’m 26, I’ve graduated college, have a career and I am happily married. As wonderfully blessed as I have been, I’m now reaching a new crossroad in my life: double lung transplant.
Once I am put on the transplant list, I am told that it is, on average, about a 3 month wait. Being all of 5'2" and 95 lbs, I, however, will need pediatric lungs. This saddens me because I know that my life will continue because a child's ended. But, I vow to live that life to the max. To not waste this amazing gift and to make that child proud! But, because of the type of lungs I need, my wait could, unfortunately, be longer.
This procedure is my second chance at life. There are hurdles left to overcome and more that will undoubtedly appear. Our biggest hurdle to being placed on the transplant list right now is fund raising. Insurance is a wonderful yet frustrating thing. Transplant is partly covered, but the costs for medication and some treatments far exceeds what is/will be covered. But hurdle or not, I refuse to let my second chance at life pass me by. I am scared, anxious, nervous, ready and going to wait as long as I need to for my second chance! Look out world, here I come!
Unfortunately this is something that plaques so many in-need patients. Please consider organ donation and fund raising for myself, for the many other in need patients out there or for a loved one that you may know. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
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